i remember someone ( guy) telling me: it is because of girls that's why they, guys have problems.
thinking about it, i think it's so so true. ( at least for the problems normal teenagers have) if guys know how much they've hurt girls, perhaps they'd really feel guilty and maybe, even more hurt. and if girls see how much we've hurt them, perhaps they'd feel the same too. but, it proves that the feelings were true ain't it? it's nay impossible to understand what's going through guy's/girl's heart. and i wonder what it'd be like, if everyone doesn't have feelings, real feelings or is already immune to them.. at my age, the most prevalent problems would be being hurt cause of a guy/girl. however, if one day, every one turns happy.. everyone takes relationships or friendships as a joke.. won't the world be much beautiful? there's this chinese saying that goes something like you solve the problems you have created for yourself( i totally can't remember). can we really solve them? naturally, we would think that it's human's nature to feel this way and problems are inevitable. but, can we avoid it? perhaps some, but then again, not all. all i can say is, problems, just like obstacles, allows one to grow and learn. however, since many of us are soft-hearted people, all our promises to "never fall in love again", " stop loving this/that person", " never get tricked by love again" turns to dust and continue to believe that that person is the one who will provide happiness. but after everything, feelings fades, often ends up hating each other, but still missing one another. but cause they're too dependent on each other, because love seemed everything, eventually, a broken heart still. both thought they tried their best, gave their all, but the other party fails to see it. what's the truth? no one knows. everything just seems to be a story, a drama serial.
i wonder why i'm blogging about this, at this time, at this moment, here.
on a lighter note, someone i know, who've dated since sec 3, are getting married soon, after 9 years of dating. =)
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